| [ EnglishOnly ] in KIDS 글 쓴 이(By): holeinl (임영희) 날 짜 (Date): 1995년03월31일(금) 12시55분42초 KST 제 목(Title): [to abbess] Hi,, obbess.. As many people who wrote to you through this board, I 'm also sorry to hear your story, and would like to say about this stuff.. first of all, i believe you can get over this stuff. I've heard from someone whom i know this kind of story, so i can understand what you're going through now.. But no more agonies, hurting yourself.. It's up to your mind,, think of it in different ways.. Until now, in this world,, especially among the Koreans,, that kind of experiences and thought can spoil women themselves.. So, the affliction is always women's.. You know what, The one who really have to feel guilty is just the man who is living well until now after that accident.. You don't need to feel guiilty.. Don't be ashamed of yourself for that.. Just forget about it.. And think you had a bad dream.. You are so innocent.. don't blame of you.. As much as you hate him, you have to get along with well.. Good luck to you.. |