| [ EnglishOnly ] in KIDS 글 쓴 이(By): guest (guest) <m22909.cs.usu.ed> 날 짜 (Date): 2001년 6월 30일 토요일 오후 12시 17분 32초 제 목(Title): garbage. 6-29-2001 I found there are a few people around me who keep trying to hurt their own emotion. I feel bad whenever I see people do that. Though I try to stay away from other people's business, observing people's self-punishing behaviors makes me think about its origin. There can be so many different origins that make a person to be so harsh to oneself. I think one reasonable explanation about origins of those self-hurting behaviors is a person's past experience, more specifically, the way they have been treated by significant other people. Chance is very high that those people have been treated harshly, despised, and insulted by significant others during their past. Not only did those victims obtain hatred to other people, but also they learned to treat other people and oneself badly. Harassing other people is a worse crime than I thought. |