| [ EnglishOnly ] in KIDS 글 쓴 이(By): chulhee (해커나가!) 날 짜 (Date): 1995년03월22일(수) 13시12분30초 KST 제 목(Title): To donny First, about you are a gay, .. You are you, and I am I. I hate a gay and I can't admit that kind of love. No more comments. And second, about the problem with your parents, First, I think your parents should teach you Korean. Not having done that is the start of the problem. Maybe you can learn Korean from now, since you are younger than your parents and it will be easier for you to learn Korean than for your parents to learn english. Supposing that it's not easy for you to learn Korean for now, there's not much to do between you and your parents, I suppose. But generally, I can tell you my experience. When I was at your age, I hated my father in so many aspects. One of them was the difference in the view of our society. He was so conservative, but I was on the point of opening my eyes to social revolution, or something like that. Whenever we talk we fought. But as I grow older, I can understand my father's stance. More precisely, not that I like his poing of view, but I got to admit that I can admit him just thinking that I was in his foot. In other words, "If I were him, I could have opinion like him." Whenever a father and his son fights, son's side always win. father can not win in the fight with his son, I think, as far as in Korea. that can be said "the father's love" In the meantime, your life can not be your father's. If you are think right, you are right. Your parents are not always right. do as you wish. But you may have conflict with your parents in the course of doing that, you can fight, you even have to fight them. But, what I want to stress here is that "YOU ARE NOT TO LEAVE SCARS IN YOUR PARENTS HEART" and the reverse is true. The problem between people linked with BLOOD always can solved. It just takes time, I think. If you and your parents have misunderstanding or generation gap, language problem, or whatever, those can be solved out someday just on condition that you don't make ant scars in the counterpart's deep heart. I am very ashamed with this article, so donny, if you sign me that you read this, I will remove this. O.K.? I really wish this may help you even very little. Thanks for reading! |